![]() That means “not no.” Yes to everything? Not everything, but lots of things. Consider challenging yourself for a day or even a week–think like a preschooler and use those magic words, please and thanks, to transform your marriage.ĭrum roll for Magic Word #3: 3rd Magic Word: Yes. ![]() There are a million contexts where these words can make a lasting difference in your marriage. When I ask him to do something in a kind tone with a “please” attached to it, he feels respected rather than nagged. I know that he is aware of the sacrifice or effort that was just made. Ouch.ĭo you know how valuable gratitude is? When my husband looks me in the eye and says “thank you,” for something I have done for him, I can feel his gratitude. We tend to drop these oh-so-important-words-we-teach-our-son when we speak to our spouse. It’s when my husband and I are speaking to each other that he reminds us of the missing words. Here’s the interesting part…we rarely forget to use those words when speaking to him. So, if we “forget” to say please or thank you, he still loves to remind us. We had taught him the importance of those words and reminded ( hound) him to say them if he has “forgotten.” Well, that lesson was quickly returned to us. Our preschooler helped to shed some light on this for me. We can feel unloved even with a forgotten “please” or “thank you.” It’s as if we assume that they “know” we love them and respect them…so we don’t make it a priority to remind them regularly or to treat them with high regard. It’s usually not intentional, but we can easily treat our spouse and those closest to us worse than a complete stranger. We tend to treat those closest to us with the least amount of respect and honor. Half of you are rolling your eyes, I imagine. Those magic words you were taught to say throughout your childhood are also just as magical in your marriage and relationships. You heard it here first….please and thank you! The first two words that are magic words for your marriage are just that…the “magic words.” Are you with me? Think preschool. BONUS: Read more about actions attached to words here! Find out about 2 words NOT to use in your marriage here. We can tell you from firsthand experience it’s true! The actions attached to these magic words can transform your marriage from good to great. Is it even possible that there are simply 3 magic words that will change your marriage? It seems far too easy to think that 3 words could revolutionize our relationships. About 39.46% of Gleeden users think that saying good things to your partner makes him feel respected and it goes well for the individual as well as for the relationship.3 Magic Words To Transform Your Marriage! Being complimented is something that is not only desired by women even men crave it. After all, receiving compliments, especially from the person you love, tends to fill you up with good feelings. ![]() Telling him he looks good when he dresses up or before going out can make him not just feel good about himself but even the relationship. No matter what, if you think there is some special quality that you like about your partner or anything that you could make a nice comment about, just do it. About 38.56% of them have said that staying calm in tough situations has helped their relationship to sail for years.īeing together, especially for a very long time, we often get used to each other and forget to notice small things that we like about our partners. Politeness is the key to function in a healthy relationship and 42.17% of Gleeden users have affirmed the same.
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